He's not so bad after all, you rationalize.
Loneliness is worse, isn't it?
Keep on lying to yourself if you want to make a career out being a doormat.
The lazy woman involves everyone around her in the drama of her failed relationships.
No man is seeking a female version of himself....
Humiliated by your ex, you end it.
Then you spend weeks making a public spectacle of yourself instead of simply moving on.
The lazy woman quits after a few days of being single and secretly gives herself permission to forgive her ex.
If you're a loser in love, why do you value your own opinion?
Your own judgement is a bit shaky isn't it?
If you want to avoid being saddled with a loser, you need to present yourself better.
A self-loathing woman creates a self-destructive relationship in order to embarrass and punish herself.
