Your actions determine the kind of man you attract.
A strong, ladylike woman who has her own mind, her own feelings and opinions and dresses in a feminine, sexually confident way.
She will appeal to a certain kind of man.
A man who treats her with respect.
Your don't have to a sexual tigress.
Fake it.
Just sit, poised in your evening dress and ask the man to take off his clothes and kneel naked in front of you.
Ask him to show you how much he cares.
If he stands, ask him to stay kneeling to begin with as this sets the right tone.
