Walk Your Dog

Men love a sexually exciting woman; it entices them from the onset and will keep them loyal and keen and obedient. Excitement requires knowledge, skill and experience, so you do have some work to do I'm afraid. Be prepared to experiment. Research is great fun: practice and pleasure all in one package. If you don't get it right first time, then try again or try something new. Persevere.

 

Marlene Dietrich was famous for her sexy legs and once commented that her legs were nothing special but she knew how to use them. She also remarked that she required a husband because there were some things that even a dog would not do.

 

Researching alternative, modern, feminist sexual practices is very useful. Forget the 50 Shades of Grey nonsense; it is sexist rubbish in which women submit to men... Haven't we been doing that since the dawn of time?

 

Elise Sutton's book Female Domination offers some interesting accounts of modern sexual experiences. There's always the classic Women On Top by Nancy Friday, although admittedly many of the stories are quite dated by modern standards.

Dita Von Teese recommends that every modern woman should own the following sex toys:

1. Stiletto heels
2. Collar & lead
3. Butt plug
4. KY jelly
5. Clothes pegs
6. Gag
7. Leather handcuffs
8. Strap-on dildo & harness
9. Blindfold
10. Testicular cuff 
11. Dildo gag

Ann Summers recently revealed that their most popular seller amongst heterosexual couples was the strap-on dildo. It significantly out-sold every other product. Begs the question, doesn't it?

You don't need to outfit yourself with a dungeon. Femdom is about female-led sexual pleasure. It takes place in a domestic environment. It is not for the public. There is no club scene. Everything is home-spun. If you don't own a gag or handcuffs or blindfold, use an old stocking. Be creative.

Common femdom practices include - queening, tampling, worship, pegging, human furniture, collar & lead, orgasm denial... If you don't know what these terms mean, do some research on-line. Be cautious: if any of the accounts you find are a bit hard-core, this is not femdom, so don't be put off.

Reading and watching and fantasizing is great and necessary, but doing is better. There's no point owning a dog if you're not going to walk it.