Divorced? Embrace change...

Do I need to be a Mistress to get what I want? 

If course not.

Just be a little more assertive: if you want something, take it rather than ask.

Divorced? Consider transitional relationships...

"Severin," replied Wanda, "I am a frivolous young woman; it is

dangerous for you to put yourself so completely in my power. You will

end by actually becoming a plaything to me. Who will give warrant

that I shall not abuse your insane desire?"

- Venus in Furs

Divorced? Dare to be alone...

Divorced? Discover a new side of yourself...

What am I supposed to be insecure about again?

"Yes, we women are inventive," she said, "take heed, when you find

your ideal, it might easily happen, that she will treat you more

cruelly than you anticipate."

- Venus in Furs

Few things panic a man more than loss of power, loss of control.